"An unfulfilled vocation drains the color from a man’s entire existence."
Mick Jones of the Clash had an interesting view on selling out.
The Clash sells out
A band like the Clash is an infrequent occurence - rapidly transcending their peers to become a global phenomenon, all while doing exactly what they wanted to do, and all in under a decade before they packed it in.
And while I'm certain that compromises were made on their end, most of us nobodies seem to spend our entire lives compromising ourselves just to make ends meet. Every day I get up at 4 A.M. to start getting ready for work, I know that the next twelve hours of my life will be spent doing things I don't want to do, but have to, just in order to be able to have a roof over my head, clothes on my back and food in the kitchen. Twelve hours, you say? Yes. Twelve hours. Because all told, prepping for work and driving to and from plus the eight hours (with a half hour for lunch), I arrive back home at 4 P.M., and that is twelve hours where I am unable to really do anything I want. Sure, there are moments of down time where I might be able to make a phone call or whatever, but largely, twelve hours a day, five days a week will inevitably be solicited for the meager compensation that is my paycheck. And that's just my current job. Let's not talk about the two times I was in Iraq as a civilian contractor, and the actual work schedule was a full twelve hour day for seven days a week - no time off except for vacation.
Do others have it worse? Do others devote more time, work harder, never see their families? Yeah.
Should I shut about it? No.
People who just lay back and accept the inevitability of their circumstances deeply disturb me. I mean, with that kind of mentality, why bother living? Your life is wasted if you're resigned to relegate to being a prostitute of capitalism. There has to be a better way, and I am determined to find it.
I have nothing against work. If money did not exist, if we could choose to do whatever we wished with our lives, I would still be working in some capacity. The difference is that I would be doing something I enjoy. I remember a time when there was a fair balance between my job and my life, but sadly this is no longer so. What happened? What was the catalyst that made such a drastic change in my life? I can't say. But most people I talk to about these things feel the same way - that time is speeding up, and that life is slipping away with less chances to do the things they'd like to do while the amount of things they have to do seem to be increasing.
But I trudge on, trying to do the things I'd like to in the bits of time I have available to do them. At some point I'd like to be able to do some sort of freelance work that could ultimately afford me to quit my day job and focus 100% on those things I enjoy doing, while making a living at it at the same time. Yeah, me and everyone else. But if I don't keep trying to improve my situation, then I have no right be dissatisified with the life I'm living.
Then I have these ideas that don't interest me, but might seem to be more appealing to a wider audience. And I think, "Well, what if I just create some crap that I know I'll hate but might be a stepping stone towards settling into a position where I'll be financially secure enough to do what I want?" Thoughts of selling out. Which, I'll admit, if I had something that absolute then that's what I'd be working on right now instead of complaining online. (Admittedly, this blog right here is the first time I've ever created any real presence for myself online. I'm a bit of a luddite in that aspect.) But in real life, even if you can create a viable, finished product, you still need a way to get it out there, and in that aspect, you need to have some sort network or interpersonal skills, which I am not in possession of. But I suppose that I'll attempt to jump that hurdle once I arrive at it.
For the time being, however, I'm left wondering how one balances life with work, or optimizes their free time in order to be the most productive.
"Career opportunity, the one that never knocks."